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See, you're a guy. Women don't think this way. And of course, since women feel and think differently, it's a HORRIBLE idea to use your logic with women.

Women actually are REPULSED by the behaviors described above. That's not to say women want to be mistreated - they don't - but they have ZERO attraction to *nice* guys. I use *nice* in quotes because *nice* in this sense means SUBMISSIVE.

A woman will NOT be grateful AT ALL for those submissive behaviors. She'll actually treat you like dirt if you display those behaviors. Why, why, why, you ask?

Well, women think that *nice* guys are DESPERATE guys. They think *NICE* behavior is DESPERATE, weak, butt-kissing behavior. This is especially true during the initial stages when a guy meets a woman. Later on, you can show occasional acts of *niceness* because you've proven you are NOT desperate.

Every time you drive on the road, you are using multiple skills, simultaneously, to not only reach your destination, but also to avoid horrendous accidents. Your eyes check the mirror, the speedometer, the gauges, you make sure to stay in the correct lane, you are watching the other traffic, both in your direction and the opposing.

Well, let me tell you something- when an *average* looking guy goes up to an attractive woman who is a complete stranger, and he walks away with her phone number, or with her herself, you can be sure he's got a license...to drive, if you will.

 
Some guys think this means to be a total jerk. Wrong. A jerk would show off a lot, and be cruel, and give off the message that he is actually insecure. Which is almost as bad as being too nice.

When you hear about a woman who calls her boyfriend a jerk, but she stays with him, the reality is most likely that he is not a real jerk, just a cocky super-confident guy that cannot be pushed around.

There are many ways to convey that you have SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE.

Here are few examples to show SIV when you meet a woman anywhere:
1. Teasing her in a friendly way- something she is doing, wearing, etc. Being a smartass shows you’re in control.
2. Not pressuring her in any way, no matter how subtle, and just enjoying the conversation.

Would you know it if your man was leading a double life?

Would the signs be obvious to you or to your family and friends?

Most of the time we know when the top isn't spinning right in our relationships, but we don't want to know so we conveniently *overlook* the obvious when it comes to our men. Other times we're in the dark about their secretive tricks until something definitive happens and the light switch is thrown. Then suddenly everything is bathed in a painfully bright light.

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