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At the MOMENT when a guy is trying to work up the nerve to go up to a woman, it's far more relaxing to do NOTHING. Of course, regret kicks in later, but when the opportunity arises again, the same pattern takes hold- at the MOMENT, doing NOTHING feels safer, more relaxing. So how do you get yourself to TAKE ACTION at the MOMENT you NEED to?
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#4 SHOWING THAT YOU ARE SINCERE
It's important that a woman think you are sincere, and not a psycho, or a player. However, most guys overdo this part and instead show that they are not only sincere, but guys behave as if they sincerely think they are UNWORTHY of an attractive woman. (As if somehow being attractive makes a woman more worthy inherently). You can also be TOO SMOOTH, where a woman is really into you, and you can OVERWHELM her with being SO CONFIDENT in your body language, behavior, wit and smart-assness, that she feels it would be awesome to be with you, but that you are OUT OF HER LEAGUE. The key to showing that you are sincere, without overdoing it, is to adjust to your particular woman in front of you, to determine how confident she herself is...by her responses, etc. And you should then accordingly pepper your smart-ass/teasing style conversation with a light small talk, and also by actually LISTENING to what she is saying, without kissing her butt. In other words, by having some normal conversation. The more confident she is, the more teasing she gets, the less confident she is, the more small talk. |
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Signal #1. He has reason(s) to travel consistently or frequently.
If your man has a job or hobby that requires consistent and/or frequent travel--look out. According to experienced private investigators, this is the NUMBER ONE cover for a second, or even a third, hidden family life. Signal #2. YOU are in the dark about his TRUE financial income and/or holdings. Does he have complete autonomy of the household finances? Whether he does or not, how do you know he doesn't have bank accounts you may not know about? Are you sure he doesn't have trust funds, mutual funds, IRA's, stocks and bonds, or even annuities hidden from you? How about credit cards? A credit report may be a good place to check on those. |
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